Frigidity refers to an unwillingness to have sexual relations and one needs to consider carefully whether or not this is a pathological situation. It is neither right nor wrong to have a high or low sex drive and discussion is essential to establish whether or not frigidity is actually a problem. Social pressure nowadays encourages young adults to have sexual relations at an ever-decreasing age. Nature did not intend us to have an interest nor indulge in sexual intercourse until we were in our mid- to late teens and therefore it is important to differentiate between the absence of our natural sexual drive and frigidity.
Discuss the matter openly with parents or friends to establish whether the emotional block is within normal parameters. If you feel uncomfortable with this, then a counsellor should be able to give guidance.
If a problem is identified then counselling is an essential aspect of treatment, starting as soon as possible and continuing in weekly sessions for as long as is necessary.
Constitutional homeopathic remedies can be chosen by a homeopath with experience.
Do not confuse frigidity with a difficulty in intercourse, such as vaginismus . A physical discomfort (dyspareunia) that creates a dislike of sexual intercourse is not frigidity.
Learn a relaxation-breathing technique if you have a tendency to be fearful.
Keep the remedy Aconite 6 at hand and use up to every 15min in the case of a sudden shock.
Keep a rescue remedy (a Bach flower remedy) at hand and use two drops every 15min if required.